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The Importance of Dialogue

David Lykken
Mar 24, 2016

In the United States, we are now deep into the primaries for the Presidential election. It has certainly been one of the most interesting campaigns in history—especially on the Republican side. But, more than that, it's also been one of the most divisive. No matter where you fall on the political spectrum, I think most of us can agree on one thing … that it's getting harder and harder for us to agree on anything.

As I think about the political strife going on in our country right now, it also leads me to think about the mortgage industry. For voters, there is quite the ideological war going on right now. But for us in the mortgage industry, there is an equally divisive war going on between two specific parties: those of us in the industry and those who are regulating the industry. And for the last decade, this war has been particularly divisive.

Now, most who are reading this will be represented by the industry. Of course, we already know how much the industry has been hurt by regulation and how much more difficult excessive regulations has made it for us to survive. But if we're really going to get anywhere, we've got to keep an open dialogue with those on "the other side." As the saying goes, "you attract more flies with honey."

If we really want to improve the industry, we've got to be willing to listen to regulators and see things from their perspective. Sometimes, we do have to fight. But we should never get so carried away in our anger that we refuse to take the time to listen. 


David Lykken, a 43-year veteran of the mortgage industry, is president of Transformational Mortgage Solutions (TMS), a management consulting firm that provides transformative business strategies to owners and “C-Level” executives via consulting, executive coaching and various communications strategies. He is a frequent guest on FOX Business News and hosts his own weekly podcast called “Lykken On Lending” heard Monday’s at 1:00 p.m. ET at David’s phone number is (512) 759-0999 and his e-mail is [email protected].


Mar 24, 2016