Now, growing a referral base requires skills as well. You don’t try to “sell” the real estate agent to get a referral. You use your relationship building skills and as you develop this relationship, you must add value to the relationship. These skills are different, but they are not easier than sales skills. The difference is in the result. If you sell a cold call lead, you will need to sell another cold call lead the next day. If you develop and nurture a relationship, this relationship will continue to feed you strong referrals as long as you continue to deliver value.
By the way, the value we speak of is not just getting loans closed. It is helping the agent, financial planner, or other referral source with their business and/or their life challenges. There are plenty of loan officers who can get loans closed — though not all are top notch in this regard. The value we speak of is adding value to the referral source’s business.
The concept of developing relationships and adding value also applies to each customer you close. Those who develop relationships with their clients and continue to add value to their lives are setting up referral sources for life. They may not be as lucrative as a top producing real estate agent, but turning your clients into supporters can provide a great diversification for your business. If those referrals are potential purchases that you can refer to your real estate agents, they become a gold mine of value in the long run.
Ivan Misner, the founder of BNI (Business Network International), addresses this in his book, Money on the Table. BNI is one of the largest networking organizations in the world. Misner counsels his followers to ask the question:
What other challenges do you have in your life?
Buying a home is a challenge, but there are many others — such as a wedding for your child or setting up retirement. Your ability to help with these challenges though professional referrals adds value to your referral sources and your clients. In this regard, your ability to network becomes one of your major value assets.